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People are talking about Stephen Collins and Woody Allen. What those men did was despicable. Yet, they are different from Bill, they ADMITTED their guilt. Not once has Bill admitted his guilt and I believe he is guilty as sin. Bill has a history of lying to cover up his bad behavior. Remember the Autumn Jackson lawsuit in 1997 where he vehemently denied ever knowing that girl or her mother (Shawn Upshaw). It was later revealed that Cosby had an affair with the girl’s mother and was giving her money all along. Yet Bill denied it until on the stand at trial. 

During Autumn Jackson’s trial, Cosby testified that he had an extramarital affair with her mother in 1974. The actor acknowledged having contact with Jackson and her mother over the years and paying them more than $100,000 before setting up a trust fund. Evidence showed Cosby paid $25,000 to cover Jackson’s tuition and living expenses at a Florida community college in 1994-95. For a while, he paid Upshaw $750 a week.” CNN

Even if the women that went to the hotel to meet him wanted an affair, no one agreed to be drugged. You can’t consent if you are unconscious. Even a prostitute can be raped when forced to do what she didn’t agree to. If someone drugged a prostitute, no one would question that as rape. So why are people in disbelief over the women claiming Cosby violated them? Lest we forget that in the 2004 lawsuit against him by a Temple University employee, Cosby admitted to drugging at least one woman.

The 2005 investigation into Cosby led to a deposition in which Cosby admitted that he had, as the Two-Way reported, “obtained the sedative Quaalude with the intent of giving the drug to women with whom he wanted to have sex, and he acknowledged giving it to at least one woman.” NPR

Though he portrayed the drug-taking and sex as consensual, Mr. Cosby — when asked whether Ms. Serignese was in a position to consent to sexual intercourse after he gave her quaaludes in 1976 — said: “I don’t know.” NY Times

I love the Cosby Show and a Different World and will continue to watch them. However, Bill Cosby is not loving Dr. Huxtable. He’s a philandering womanizer. I love the sitcoms he created, but ya’ll need to stop defending him like OJ. Everybody ain’t lying on that man. Just like Clarence Thomas, Anita Hill accused him much earlier but the powers that be suppressed it until it had to come out. The allegations did not appear out of thin air. For Cosby, they were always present but because of his stature in Hollywood they were suppressed. Everything isn’t a conspiracy. A man did bad acts and used his position to hide them. In the process, he produced great television. When Bill got caught, like most sexual predators he blamed his victims.

Everybody is coming to his defense when they know they have family members that have molested people who have not said a word. We have taken “don’t air family laundry in public” to another level of insane. Maybe that is why people are so adamant in their support of Cosby. Not supporting him is like outing the uncle everyone is afraid to leave the kids around. Just as people blamed Janay Rice and  Rihanna for the character failings of Ray Rice and Chris Brown, so too has society blamed Cosby’s victims. It is no wonder rape victims don’t come forward, because if your assaulter is an athlete, actor, musician, celebrity, or has some manner of fame – obviously you wanted it and were trying to entrap a man. When allegations emerged about priest abuse, people tried to blame the victims for trying to taint the Catholic Church, not the church for hiding it. So too are Cosby sympathizers blaming victims for “destroying” his legacy. Cosby’s legacy will remain via the Cosby Show and A Different World. His character and integrity defamation is his own undoing. Shame on us protecting the criminal and shunning the victims. Be it sexual abuse or domestic violence, society always responds by blaming the victim.

Regarding the rumor that Cosby was trying to buy NBC, please read “So, About That Bill Cosby/NBC Thing.”

For those still struggling to separate Bill Cosby from Dr. Heathcliffe Huxtable, the character he played on his show, please read “Dr. Huxtable-You’re Not Like Your Homeboy Bill” and “I Re-Watched The Cosby Show and It Was Brutal.”

For those questioning why come forward 30 years later, a friend shared this Facebook post from Traci Blackmon. All I could say, Amen.

TBlackmon